How to always have your prayers answered the way you want them to be….. 

There is a way to always have your prayers answered by HaShem, the way you want them answered.  If you can get yourself to a point to where only the will of HaShem, what he wants,  matters in your life, then when you pray, the answers will always be what you desire.  Most of us make our requests, and then we may ask that HaShem’s Will be done.  Then when our prayers don’t come out the way we would like, we usually aren’t happy with the outcome.  We feel that HaShem didn’t answer our prayers, when in fact He did, just not the way we intended.  Really, we are praying that what we want to happen will be what Hashem wants to happen not visa versa.  If we can let go of our own selves, which is very difficult, we could always be content in any situation that happens to us.  We will know in our hearts and minds that HaShem’s Will is being done.  The reason that most of us aren’t really content in life, is that we want to impose our own will on HaShem.  We think that we know better what is good for us.  When in actuality, we usually choose paths that are harmful to us and others.  I know this seems very simplified, but I don’t think HaShem intends things to be so complicated, we seem to do the complicating on our own.  HaShem is gracious and merciful to give us choice in our lives, when we tune ourselves into Him and His Will, we will choose His way and will.  His will is in the Torah, He makes is available to all.  We just have to choose to make it our own. Pray that our desire will be that we choose the will of HaShem over our own.